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The Jealousy Journey
Think jealousy is a weakness or a sign of insecurity?
Stop burying your head in the sand! It is a valid human emotion, a sign…
Experience Levels
In BDSM relationships, experience levels between partners can influence the dynamic in significant ways. A recent poll of my followers revealed that 68% are new…
Fetish Friday: Bastinado
Bastinado, the practice of striking the soles of the feet, holds a distinct and intimate place in BDSM. Unlike other forms of impact play, it…
Dominance, Not Dependence
Too many cling to the tired idea that dominance is about barking orders and expecting immediate compliance, as though authority in D/S means nothing more…
Fetish Friday: Objectification
Welcome to Fetish Friday and while not every topic chatted about here might be the object of your desires, this week it is at least,…
When The Screen Fades
Join me for an exploration of the real-world challenges of moving from online chatting and fantasy to genuine, in-person lifestyle commitment. I share my own…