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Monday Minute: Hidden Bias
Many who create, market, and lead in the BDSM community promote the idea that dominants are always men and submissives are always women based on…
Fetish Friday: Cold Intentions
The first drop of melting ice against bare skin is not something the body forgets. That sharp contrast, sudden and exact, is what makes ice…
Monday Minute: Beyond The Necklace
A collar in BDSM is not just a piece of material worn around the neck. It can carry many different meanings, some signaling intent and…
Stop The Punishing
What really happens when a dominant says they are punishing their submissive? My new podcast episode takes a provocative look at the idea of punishment…
Monday Minute: The Guiding Hand
Sometimes submissives can sometimes struggle with mental blocks, getting “in their own way” so to speak. This can manifest as overthinking, self-doubt, or difficulty fully…
Fetish Friday: Wonderful Wax
Wax play takes sensation play to a new level by using heated wax to spark reaction, anticipation, and intensity. Each drop is a choice, not…