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The Great BDSM Bank Heist - A podcast mic on a purple to blue background.

The Great BDSM Bank Heist Is LIVE!

So there was this guy who knew that lemon juice could be used to make invisible ink and had mastered the process. He then decided to rob a bank. Knowing that lemon juice made his ink invisible, he covered his face with lemon juice thinking the security camera would not see them. They even smiled at the camera, thinking himself invisible. Needless to say he was caught in a few hours.

What does this have to do with BDSM?

More than you might think.

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Am I Still A Dominant?

This episode of Chatting With The Lightkeeper is personal.

A recent family emergency brought forward a challenge to my identity as a dominant. According to some, my actions mean I am not a “true” dominant. In this episode, I explain what happened, explore why rigid definitions can be more harmful than helpful, and discuss how there are moments in every D/S relationship when the focus must shift to partnership rather than roles. This is a reflective and provocative conversation about leadership, care, and the reality of living this lifestyle.

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The Mailbag Strikes Back! (Part One) - White question mark on a black background.

Podcast: The Mailbag Strikes Back! (Part One)

Recently I asked you, the listeners, to ask your questions about BDSM, D/S, and kink and the variety and scope of the questions are amazing. The questions cover so much ground, from navigating ethical gray areas, how to talk with an uptight partner about getting kinky, or handle laughter mid-scene plus some dared ask those questions people think but rarely ask! So put on those earbuds, pull up a chair, get comfy, and press play on the first of a two part episode dedicated your questions!

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When The Screen Fades

Join me for an exploration of the real-world challenges of moving from online chatting and fantasy to genuine, in-person lifestyle commitment. I share my own journey through the challenges, fears, and unexpected rewards of living D/S in real life. No matter where you are in your D/S journey, you will gain real-world insight that will strengthen authentic connections for moving off screens and into real life.

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Experience Gap

Consider “The Experience Gap” as your first listen

Jimi Hendrix’s decades old question, “Are you experienced?” Is taken into BDSM territory with this episode of the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast, titled “The Experience Gap”.

Why are so many newcomers unwilling to partner with someone equally inexperienced?

What makes those who are seasoned apprehensive about those who are not?

Hendrix posed the question.

This episode answers it.

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Beacons Of Strength

Beacons of strength, standing tall against the storm, lighthouses have guided countless ships to safety, their unwavering beams cutting through even the darkest nights. Behind those lights were the keepers, steadfast, disciplined, and ever watchful. Much like a dominant in a D/S relationship, they provided direction, stability, and protection, ensuring those who depended on them never felt lost at sea. This episode explores the fascinating parallels between lighthouses, their keepers, and the role of a dominant.

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