Fetish Friday: Pet Play
Pet play is a unique form of BDSM that typically involves a partner taking on the role of a pet, […]
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Monday Minute – Ten Lessons Learned
No matter what it is in life, as we gain experience with something, there are lessons we learned along the way. Sometimes those little lessons that are acquired by experience, people keep inside and do not always share as though they are a secret or a bit of knowledge they feel must be learned the hard way, as they have learned them. Thinking back on some of the things discovered on my journey in D/S, some challenges could have been or should have been talked about rather than discovered. D/S is not a place where educational experiences should be withheld like a state secret. So with that in mind, here are ten thoughts to assist those who are newer or perhaps even give food for thought to the more experienced:
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Fetish Friday: Medical Play
Medical play has a rich history dating back centuries, when the intersection of power exchange and the human body became
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Monday Minute: Pornish Perceptions
The influence of porn on our perceptions of sex is undeniable, and in D/S, it is no exception. This is not to say that adult films are a “bad thing” because it is not even when they give us unreasonable expectations of how long it takes a plumber to arrive at our house. Additionally, it creates a world that is easy to be swept away by the allure of unrealistic expectations regarding the dynamics of D/S relationships. Today, we will look into how pornography has contributed to unrealistic expectations within the lifestyle, why fantasies do not always translate seamlessly into reality, and how individuals can navigate this divide for more fulfilling and authentic intimate experiences.
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Fetish Friday: Rope
Rope bondage, an intricate and captivating art form intertwined with the fabric of human history, has emerged as a cornerstone of BDSM practices. Its origins trace back centuries, transcending cultures and continents, weaving through diverse societies with varying customs and rituals. From ancient Japanese traditions to modern Western interpretations, the allure of rope in BDSM is as diverse as the individuals who engage in it.
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Monday Minute: New Relationship Energy
New Relationship Energy, or NRE, is that intense emotional and physical buzz people often feel when something new and exciting begins. While the term is widely known in polyamorous circles, its reach goes far beyond that. NRE can throw even the most grounded D/S dynamic off balance, whether the relationship is polyamorous, open, or monogamous. It can lift everything to thrilling heights or blur boundaries in ways that catch people off guard. This is about recognizing when NRE shows up, understanding what it stirs up, and knowing how to handle it before it steers things off course.
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Fetish Friday: Latex
Latex, a material born from the natural sap of rubber trees, has woven its way into the fabric of BDSM culture, encapsulating both a history rich in innovation and a contemporary allure that captivates enthusiasts worldwide. The journey of latex within the world of BDSM is a tale of transformation, from its humble beginnings to its current status as a symbol of sensuality and power dynamics.
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The Great BDSM Bank Heist Is LIVE!
So there was this guy who knew that lemon juice could be used to make invisible ink and had mastered the process. He then decided to rob a bank. Knowing that lemon juice made his ink invisible, he covered his face with lemon juice thinking the security camera would not see them. They even smiled at the camera, thinking himself invisible. Needless to say he was caught in a few hours.
What does this have to do with BDSM?
More than you might think.
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