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Monday Minute - Frenzy Woman in a white shirt, red jacket holding a flogger.

Monday Minute: Frenzy

In the captivating world of dominance and submission, times of frenzied excitement can arise, engulfing individuals in a whirlwind of emotions and desires. This frenzy is a state of mind where passion and eagerness surge, sometimes leading to impulsive actions and decisions. While the world of D/S exploration is often exciting, it requires cautious awareness to avoid impulsive decisions, as yielding to frenzied thoughts can lead to potential dangers.

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Monday Minute - Beyond The Fantasy. BDSM toys lit by a red light.

Monday Minute: Beyond the Fantasy

Fantasies carry a weight that can make openly discussing them a challenge. They are often met with silent judgment or misunderstanding. This can make them harder to voice but within BDSM expressing them can be liberating because fantasies are natural and powerful expressions of imagination, curiosity, and desire that deserve recognition without shame. They are not confessions or signs of moral failing but parts of ourselves that call for ownership. Embracing fantasies openly sets the stage for personal acceptance and freedom, inviting a deeper exploration of what it means to live honestly with desire.

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Monday Minute - Hidden Bias. The word bias spelled out on wooden blocks.

Monday Minute: Hidden Bias

Many who create, market, and lead in the BDSM community promote the idea that dominants are always men and submissives are always women based on their products and productions. This narrow portrayal does more than distort reality. It causes harm by erasing the rich variety of D/S relationships that exist across all genders and identities. Authentic D/S connections break free from these outdated roles and deserve to be seen. Bias like this shows up everywhere, shapes how people live their experiences, and demands to be challenged for a clearer and more inclusive view.

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Monday Minute - Beyond The Necklace. A person wearing a leather BDSM collar.

Monday Minute: Beyond The Necklace

A collar in BDSM is not just a piece of material worn around the neck. It can carry many different meanings, some signaling intent and commitment, others serving practical or personal purposes. Not all collars represent the same thing. Some mark stages in a relationship, some express identity or protection, and some exist purely as fashion accessories. Understanding the differences between collar types and their significance is essential.

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