Edward Volkl

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Various adult toys for the Fetish Friday article Forced Orgasms.

Fetish Friday: Forced Orgasms

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Forced orgasms and orgasmic torture are intense practices where the dominant partner consensually controls the submissive’s body to induce orgasms, often through methods designed to heighten sensations. During this kind of play, control and pleasure are tightly woven, with the dominant guiding the submissive through overstimulation, creating a unique blend of pain and pleasure. While the submissive may experience resistance, this tension is carefully managed, always within the framework of revokable consent and communication. This week Fetish Friday explores the psychological depth and physical sensations involved in these practices, revealing the intricacies of power and trust in a controlled yet deeply pleasurable experience.

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The last American exit, where ghosts live.

Ghosts

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Out here, we are the edge of somewhere and nowhere,
The last stretch of stateside before the river runs south.
This town clings to the border like it forgot where to go,
Like we are all half-waiting to cross over, but never quite do.
The highway bridges at the water’s edge,
Where only the brave or the lost take that final step.

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A person in black holding their hand up to signal stop for Fetish Friday: Control and Denial

Fetish Friday: Control and Denial

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Orgasm control and denial is a provocative form of play where sexual pleasure is manipulated through the strategic delay or prevention of orgasm. This practice combines both psychological and physical elements, weaving together anticipation, power dynamics, and the deep frustration that arises from prolonged arousal. The experience heightens sensation, turning every touch and tease into a thrilling game of patience and control. For those involved, it can lead to a more intense release when the inevitable orgasm is finally permitted. At its core, orgasm control and denial is a dance of power and emotional intensity, enhancing both the mental and physical aspects of sexual pleasure.

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Magic wand and top hat in front of a red curtain.

Authenticity Is Magic

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In BDSM and kink, there is a tendency to look to the past for guidance, whether it is through following traditional roles, structures, or images. While it is important to honor the foundations of the lifestyle, it does not mean that we must be tethered to outdated ideals or limited by what others expect. True fulfillment in the world of BDSM and kink comes from embracing who you are, not from following the herd. It is crucial to let go of the idea that we must fit into predefined molds and to encourage individuality and authenticity in the lifestyle.

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Fetish Friday: The Allure of Hands

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Quirofilia may sound like an obscure term plucked from the depths, but its concept is simpler than it first appears. Quirofilia refers to an attraction to hands, an appreciation of their beauty, their movements, and the sensations they evoke. For many, hands hold a subtle yet powerful allure, often becoming the focus of desire and fascination.

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Downhill ski racer at speed.

Hahnenkamm

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Skis try to dig, snow hard and unforgiving,

Hear the edges bite, metal on ice, a sharp clatter,

Every turn feels too quick, not precise, no time to think, just react.

The wind cuts like a knife, hurting the skin,

It’s biting, sharp, ice stinging the face,

Breathing is sucking on frozen air, cutting into the lungs.

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Couple on a mountain top.

Caring Is Not Exclusive Of BDSM

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There is a misunderstanding in some BDSM circles that dominance is solely about showing care through simple questions like, “Did you eat?” or “Did you take your medicine?” These are acts of concern, yes, but they are not unique to dominant individuals. These expressions of care are commonly found in all types of relationships. Caring for a partner’s well-being is not the exclusive domain of a dominant partner. This misconception needs to be addressed. Dominance involves much more than offering a reminder to eat or take medication.

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