Edward Volkl

Coffee Aficionado, Podcaster, Poet, Writer, Advocate Of Everything Kinktastic & Sharing My Passion In A Positive, Uplifting Space.

Monday Minute - Beyond The Necklace. A person wearing a leather BDSM collar.

Monday Minute: Beyond The Necklace

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A collar in BDSM is not just a piece of material worn around the neck. It can carry many different meanings, some signaling intent and commitment, others serving practical or personal purposes. Not all collars represent the same thing. Some mark stages in a relationship, some express identity or protection, and some exist purely as fashion accessories. Understanding the differences between collar types and their significance is essential.

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Fetish Friday Wonderful Wax - A candle burning with wax flowing down its side.

Fetish Friday: Wonderful Wax

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Wax play takes sensation play to a new level by using heated wax to spark reaction, anticipation, and intensity. Each drop is a choice, not an accident, aimed at triggering the body and mind through controlled heat. While not embraced by everyone in BDSM, it continues to attract those drawn to its unique pull. What sets wax play apart is how it blends striking visual drama with touch, creating something that is as much seen as felt. The result is a layered experience that tempts the curious and satisfies those who want more than the familiar.

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Inclusion In The Lifestyle: Various outlines of people standing on top of the letters that spell inclusion.

Inclusion In The Lifestyle

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Inclusion in BDSM is not just a philosophy but a necessity to ensure that everyone who feels called to the lifestyle has a space to explore, engage, and thrive. Unfortunately, many are familiar with the crass and oversimplified statements tossed around by some, such as “all men desire a submissive woman” or “men must kneel before women.” These notions do more than just misrepresent BDSM; they pigeonhole people into roles based solely on their anatomy, perpetuating outdated stereotypes.

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Fetish Friday: Corset Obsession - A black and white photo of a woman wearing a black leather corset while laying on couch.

Fetish Friday: Corset Obsession

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The corset began as a fashion staple, sculpting silhouettes and commanding posture, but its transformation into a fetish object is where fascination deepens. More than fabric and laces, it teases a potent blend of aesthetic sharpness, erotic suggestion, and psychological edge. The corset captivates not only for how it looks, but for how it makes one feel, confined yet desired. Beneath the boning lies a layered narrative of history, gender tension, shifting ideals, and carefully constructed fantasy.

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