Edward Volkl

Coffee Aficionado, Podcaster, Poet, Writer, Advocate Of Everything Kinktastic & Sharing My Passion In A Positive, Uplifting Space.

Lactation: Picture for Fetish Friday on lactation.

Fetish Friday: Lactation

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This week’s Fetish Friday explores lactation and ANR, desires that blends nurturing with power dynamics. Rooted in sensuality and care, lactation can manifest in various ways, from the act of breastfeeding to the psychological roles of caregiver and receiver. Understanding its complexity requires acknowledging the historical context of breastfeeding, sexuality, and gender roles, as well as how these influences have shaped its significance today. Exploring this fetish highlights not only its personal and psychological dimensions but also the importance of consent and safety in these intimate explorations.

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Decency: A dandelion close up with a seed floating away.

Decency

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In BDSM and kink, there exists a fundamental truth that often gets overlooked, the necessity of being a courteous and respectful individual. Despite the allure of exploring taboo desires and indulging in explicit conversations, it is imperative to remember that behind every fetish lies a person deserving of basic human decency.

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Breeding: A pregnant woman holding a flower.

Fetish Friday: Breeding

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Welcome to this Fetish Friday! This week, the focus is on breeding fetishes, a topic that resonates with many individuals across different sexual orientations. This fetish is typically centered on the desire to simulate reproduction, often involving themes of fertility, dominance, and/or procreation. The appeal often stems from deeply rooted psychological factors, while the fetish is not without risks. Explore the historical roots of breeding, uncover its appeal, examine the potential risks, and discover practical ways to navigate those risks for a safer experience.

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The Experience Gap featuring a red flogger and red fuzzy handcuffs on a pink background.

Experience Gap

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Consider “The Experience Gap” as your first listen

Jimi Hendrix’s decades old question, “Are you experienced?” Is taken into BDSM territory with this episode of the Chatting With The Lightkeeper podcast, titled “The Experience Gap”.

Why are so many newcomers unwilling to partner with someone equally inexperienced?

What makes those who are seasoned apprehensive about those who are not?

Hendrix posed the question.

This episode answers it.

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Compass: A compass like needle that points to "right direction" rather than north, south, east, and west.

Internal Compass

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The internal compass is something that in way the modern world pushes us to ignore, is essential in the lifestyle. Exploring BDSM, a diverse world of sexuality and power dynamics, requires a deep understanding of oneself and an amazing level of trust in those we share it with. In this journey, one’s intuition, gut feelings, and vibes serve as invaluable guides, leading individuals through uncharted territories with confidence and authenticity. Understanding the importance of trusting oneself and cultivating this trust is crucial for a fulfilling and safe exploration of BDSM practices.

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Cuckolding: A woman in BDSM gear holding a flogger.

Fetish Friday: Cuckolding

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Fetish Friday takes a bold turn with a look into cuckolding and cuckqueaning, practices that push boundaries and challenge traditional views of monogamy. Often misunderstood and surrounded by myths, these dynamics blend elements of trust, thrill, and complex desires. Exploring their history, media portrayal, and growing popularity can reveal why some people find them so captivating. Understanding the appeal means looking at how these practices balance emotional intensity and power exchanges. Explore the thrilling world of cuckolding and cuckqueaning, revealing their allure, risks, and the hidden dynamics behind these practices.

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Five Hours: Northern Lights over Bobcaygeon Ontario

Five Hours

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I drove five hours through the spine of Ontario,
two lanes humming like an old Hip song,
the sky pressing low, waiting to exhale,
Bobcaygeon awaits like some half-remembered dream,
a town know for a melody, lit by a myth.

I stood by the water where Gord must have stood,
where the past drapes itself over rooftops and docks,
and I waited for the stars to reveal themselves,
not hypothetical, not dull, not lost to the city’s haze,
but sharp as a whispered truth, rising one by one.

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