Trust Me
Predators hunt in BDSM spaces, exploiting trust and bringing harm. They will hide behind empty lies like “trust me” or […]
The influence of porn on our perceptions of sex is undeniable, and in D/S, it is no exception. This is not to say that adult films are a “bad thing” because it is not even when they give us unreasonable expectations of how long it takes a plumber to arrive at our house. Additionally, it creates a world that is easy to be swept away by the allure of unrealistic expectations regarding the dynamics of D/S relationships. Today, we will look into how pornography has contributed to unrealistic expectations within the lifestyle, why fantasies do not always translate seamlessly into reality, and how individuals can navigate this divide for more fulfilling and authentic intimate experiences.
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BDSM, Monday MinuteRope bondage, an intricate and captivating art form intertwined with the fabric of human history, has emerged as a cornerstone of BDSM practices. Its origins trace back centuries, transcending cultures and continents, weaving through diverse societies with varying customs and rituals. From ancient Japanese traditions to modern Western interpretations, the allure of rope in BDSM is as diverse as the individuals who engage in it.
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BDSM, Fetish FridayThe Forehead
A kiss to the forehead, gentle but steady,
No words pass between them, yet all is understood,
The dominant’s presence felt in every touch.
New Relationship Energy, or NRE, is that intense emotional and physical buzz people often feel when something new and exciting begins. While the term is widely known in polyamorous circles, its reach goes far beyond that. NRE can throw even the most grounded D/S dynamic off balance, whether the relationship is polyamorous, open, or monogamous. It can lift everything to thrilling heights or blur boundaries in ways that catch people off guard. This is about recognizing when NRE shows up, understanding what it stirs up, and knowing how to handle it before it steers things off course.
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BDSM, Monday MinuteLatex, a material born from the natural sap of rubber trees, has woven its way into the fabric of BDSM culture, encapsulating both a history rich in innovation and a contemporary allure that captivates enthusiasts worldwide. The journey of latex within the world of BDSM is a tale of transformation, from its humble beginnings to its current status as a symbol of sensuality and power dynamics.
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BDSM, Fetish FridayBreakfast In Bed
He lowers down, in morning’s first light,
A kiss to start, a slow demanding delight.
His tongue dances, searching deep,
She moans as passion stirs from sleep.
So there was this guy who knew that lemon juice could be used to make invisible ink and had mastered the process. He then decided to rob a bank. Knowing that lemon juice made his ink invisible, he covered his face with lemon juice thinking the security camera would not see them. They even smiled at the camera, thinking himself invisible. Needless to say he was caught in a few hours.
What does this have to do with BDSM?
More than you might think.
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BDSM, PodcastIn the captivating world of dominance and submission, times of frenzied excitement can arise, engulfing individuals in a whirlwind of emotions and desires. This frenzy is a state of mind where passion and eagerness surge, sometimes leading to impulsive actions and decisions. While the world of D/S exploration is often exciting, it requires cautious awareness to avoid impulsive decisions, as yielding to frenzied thoughts can lead to potential dangers.
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