He did not do it, but that was never the point,
not when the badge needed a body and the town needed quiet.
The facts were thin, but the headlines were thick,
and they printed guilt before the jury had time to blink.
The train passed through once, slow as apology,
then was gone, like the promises made after sentencing.
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Poetry
My story began with an ancient Roman historian, hunger pangs, a taco craving, and a healthy dose of naivety. Then came the moment I ran into a professor at what seemed like the wrong place (a porn store) at the wrong time. As if there is ever a good time to see a professor in a porn shop, color me mortified.
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BDSM, Podcast
People with ADHD experience D/S relationships in ways that can bring both challenges and surprises. Sometimes it is hard to focus, keep track of agreements, or stay on the same page. But ADHD also brings creativity, intensity, and fresh ways of connecting that can make partnerships feel more alive. As someone who navigates the challenges and joys of ADHD in a D/S partnership, I have learned a lot about how these two worlds connect. Knowing what to expect and how to work with these ups and downs can help make relationships honest, flexible, and real. Whether you have ADHD, care about someone who does, or just want to understand more, this can help.
ADHD in D/S: Challenges and Solutions Read More »
BDSM, Monday Minute
Welcome back to another Fetish Friday, where the statistics tell stories that most people never hear whispered in polite conversation, and where the numbers reveal that human sexuality contains far more variety than anyone might guess from everyday interactions. This week takes a different approach by exploring an array of surprising facts about fetishes, kinks, and desires that research has uncovered over the years. The data challenges assumptions, reveals unexpected patterns, and paints a picture of sexuality that extends far beyond what mainstream culture typically acknowledges. So settle in somewhere comfortable, pour something delicious to sip, and prepare to discover that the intimate lives people lead behind closed doors are both more common and more diverse than most would ever imagine.
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BDSM, Fetish Friday
Can a spanking be a love language as a hand rises and strikes warm, yielding flesh
the palm pressing into taut skin, fingers spreading slightly before impact
a sharp bloom of heat spreads across the cheeks, muscles jerking at the force
hips lift and tilt into the rhythm, shoulders arching as breath hitches
the body responding instinctively, quivering and craving the next blow
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Poetry
Kink has always existed, even when society tried to erase it. Long before online communities, people found secret ways to explore BDSM, dominance and submission, and erotic curiosity. Hidden clubs, coded letters, and underground gatherings allowed desire to flourish despite danger and stigma. Ancient rituals, daring literature, and clandestine photography reveal a world rich with experimentation and daring. Tracing this history shows a culture that thrived on creativity, courage, and connection long before the digital age.
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BDSM
Financial domination, more commonly known as Findom, is one of the most fascinating corners of the D/S spectrum because it places money itself at the center of erotic exchange. At its core, Findom involves a submissive finding arousal, release, or fulfillment by giving financial tribute to a dominant who receives not only the funds but also the symbolic weight of authority and command. It is a dynamic that strips money of its everyday purpose and turns it into a currency of desire, validation, and psychological thrill. What was once whispered about in private circles and tucked into the back pages of fetish magazines has become more visible, amplified by the internet and increasingly visible in kink spaces. Today, Findom is not only part of D/S culture but also a striking reflection of how intimacy, power dynamics, and technology intersect in modern relationships.
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BDSM, Fetish Friday
A dominant studies a submissive
like the turning of pages in a room with cigar smoke and coffee
not to master not to manipulate not to twist lines to lies
the fears tucked under skin like secret songs
the strength that moves without announcing itself
the hurt that still tastes of yesterday
the places healed and the places hidden and the places no one else sees