You arrive before the day has even taken shape,
your scent rising like a lover’s touch across the room,
filling every corner with a warmth that whispers my name.
Steam from your body curls in tender spirals,
a veiled invitation to come closer and linger,
to press my face into the comfort only you carry.
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Poetry
The rise of the so-called sigma male has captivated corners of internet culture, where the image of a lone wolf draws fascination. He is framed as an independent man who exists outside traditional ladders of status, admired for his mysterious detachment. In definition, a sigma male is presented as someone who sidesteps hierarchy altogether and insists on living by his own rules. This figure appeals to contemporary ideals of self-reliance, self-sufficiency, and personal freedom. Yet beneath the allure of that independence often lies an undercurrent of isolation that speaks more to loneliness and social alienation than to genuine autonomy.
The Sigma Male in BDSM: Lone Wolf or Just Alone? Read More »
BDSM, Monday Minute
Exhibitionism and voyeurism are not new curiosities. They have been stitched into the fabric of sexuality for generations, shifting shape as culture and technology evolve. Some chase the high of being seen. Others crave the charge of watching. These are not fringe fixations. They are creative, layered, and often deeply personal. Looking at how they show up today reveals just how many people are finding new ways to express desire, kink, and boldness on their terms.
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BDSM, Fetish Friday
Intimacy is the Thing
You can fuck someone ten times a week and never touch the thing that aches behind their eyes,
The part they flinch from when brushing their own teeth in the mirror before work,
The word they cannot say but hear in their dreams, the silence they practice so well,
And none of it makes your hand on their thigh mean more than an echo in a hallway.
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Poetry
How does a flaming car connect to BDSM vetting, D/S, and kink? What happens when you focus so much on
Automobile Flambé – My BDSM Vetting Disaster Read More »
BDSM, Podcast
This morning, bumbling around the internet waiting for a conference call to start led to discovering a blog post that had fifteen steps to becoming a dominant. It had advice like never take “no” for an answer ever. Can you imagine a date with this person who never takes no for an answer? Ick and DANGER! The post dragged on while creating a challenge.
How do you define dominance? Perhaps the simple, quick answer is leadership, but what does that mean? So the challenge today was setting a limit of ten rapid ideas to define leadership, in D/S.
Monday Minute Defining Dominance Read More »
BDSM, Monday Minute