September 2025

Fetish Friday - Exhibitionism And Voyeurism. An eye with a golden light peeking through a keyhole.

Fetish Friday: Exhibitionism And Voyeurism

Exhibitionism and voyeurism are not new curiosities. They have been stitched into the fabric of sexuality for generations, shifting shape as culture and technology evolve. Some chase the high of being seen. Others crave the charge of watching. These are not fringe fixations. They are creative, layered, and often deeply personal. Looking at how they show up today reveals just how many people are finding new ways to express desire, kink, and boldness on their terms.

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Wordsmith Wednesday - Intimacy. A couple touching hands while toasting with red wine.

Intimacy is the Thing

Intimacy is the Thing

You can fuck someone ten times a week and never touch the thing that aches behind their eyes,
The part they flinch from when brushing their own teeth in the mirror before work,
The word they cannot say but hear in their dreams, the silence they practice so well,
And none of it makes your hand on their thigh mean more than an echo in a hallway.

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Monday Minute - Defining Dominance A woman in a mask with a red background.

Monday Minute Defining Dominance

This morning, bumbling around the internet waiting for a conference call to start led to discovering a blog post that had fifteen steps to becoming a dominant. It had advice like never take “no” for an answer ever. Can you imagine a date with this person who never takes no for an answer? Ick and DANGER! The post dragged on while creating a challenge.

How do you define dominance? Perhaps the simple, quick answer is leadership, but what does that mean? So the challenge today was setting a limit of ten rapid ideas to define leadership, in D/S.

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