Fetish Friday: Pet Play
Pet play is a unique form of BDSM that typically involves a partner taking on the role of a pet, […]
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BDSM, Fetish FridayAugust 2025
Quiet Exit
Quiet Exit
They Came In The Morning, Long Before Light Touched The Fences,
Boots On Gravel, Loud But Somehow Hollow In Meaning.
A Mother Folded Her Child’s Jacket Without A Word,
The Silence Around Her Louder Than The Men In Uniform.
The Law Said Wait, The Law Said Process, But No One Stayed For It.
Even Mercy Wore A Badge And Refused To Meet Her Eyes.
Monday Minute – Ten Lessons Learned
No matter what it is in life, as we gain experience with something, there are lessons we learned along the way. Sometimes those little lessons that are acquired by experience, people keep inside and do not always share as though they are a secret or a bit of knowledge they feel must be learned the hard way, as they have learned them. Thinking back on some of the things discovered on my journey in D/S, some challenges could have been or should have been talked about rather than discovered. D/S is not a place where educational experiences should be withheld like a state secret. So with that in mind, here are ten thoughts to assist those who are newer or perhaps even give food for thought to the more experienced:
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Fetish Friday: Medical Play
Medical play has a rich history dating back centuries, when the intersection of power exchange and the human body became
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Ashes on the Pavement
Unfriendly Things
I wrote unfriendly things on diner napkins, left them where delusionists might find them.
The waitress asked if I wanted cream, but her voice cracked like morning ice.
On the TV, a senator blinked slow, mouthing rage that did not match the script.
I sipped the coffee, bitter as headlines, and stared at my reflection in the spoon.
Truth is, I hoped someone would read it and feel their throat tighten.
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Poetry
Monday Minute: Pornish Perceptions
The influence of porn on our perceptions of sex is undeniable, and in D/S, it is no exception. This is not to say that adult films are a “bad thing” because it is not even when they give us unreasonable expectations of how long it takes a plumber to arrive at our house. Additionally, it creates a world that is easy to be swept away by the allure of unrealistic expectations regarding the dynamics of D/S relationships. Today, we will look into how pornography has contributed to unrealistic expectations within the lifestyle, why fantasies do not always translate seamlessly into reality, and how individuals can navigate this divide for more fulfilling and authentic intimate experiences.
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Fetish Friday: Rope
Rope bondage, an intricate and captivating art form intertwined with the fabric of human history, has emerged as a cornerstone of BDSM practices. Its origins trace back centuries, transcending cultures and continents, weaving through diverse societies with varying customs and rituals. From ancient Japanese traditions to modern Western interpretations, the allure of rope in BDSM is as diverse as the individuals who engage in it.
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The Forehead
The Forehead
A kiss to the forehead, gentle but steady,
No words pass between them, yet all is understood,
The dominant’s presence felt in every touch.