June 2025

Inclusion In The Lifestyle: Various outlines of people standing on top of the letters that spell inclusion.

Inclusion In The Lifestyle

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Inclusion in BDSM is not just a philosophy but a necessity to ensure that everyone who feels called to the lifestyle has a space to explore, engage, and thrive. Unfortunately, many are familiar with the crass and oversimplified statements tossed around by some, such as “all men desire a submissive woman” or “men must kneel before women.” These notions do more than just misrepresent BDSM; they pigeonhole people into roles based solely on their anatomy, perpetuating outdated stereotypes.

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Fetish Friday: Corset Obsession - A black and white photo of a woman wearing a black leather corset while laying on couch.

Fetish Friday: Corset Obsession

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The corset began as a fashion staple, sculpting silhouettes and commanding posture, but its transformation into a fetish object is where fascination deepens. More than fabric and laces, it teases a potent blend of aesthetic sharpness, erotic suggestion, and psychological edge. The corset captivates not only for how it looks, but for how it makes one feel, confined yet desired. Beneath the boning lies a layered narrative of history, gender tension, shifting ideals, and carefully constructed fantasy.

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Lifestyle Movies: An old reel to reel projector on a light wooden background.

Lifestyle Movies

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Movies love to feature BDSM, but they rarely get it right. Common misconceptions in lifestyle films are easy to spot, though some moments come surprisingly close to accuracy. Consent and communication matter far more off-screen than most scripts bother to show. Even though the movies rarely get the lifestyle correct, there are still some entertaining movies, not titled Fifty Shades that you may want to consider for your next kinky binge listed at the end. So next time you want to pop some corn and enjoy some BDSM, you can try a not so shady movie.

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Fetish Friday Hypnosis: A woman sitting in front of a black and white hypnotic background.

Fetish Friday: Hypnosis

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Hypnosis, an ancient practice rooted in the manipulation of consciousness and suggestion, has a rich history spanning centuries. From ancient civilizations to modern psychology, hypnosis has intrigued and captivated individuals seeking to explore the depths of the human mind. In recent years, hypnosis has found a place within BDSM, offering a unique avenue for psychological exploration, power exchange, and sexual enhancement.

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The Alpha Myth: A man raging out of a car window.

The Alpha Myth

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The alpha male trope has stubbornly clung to pop culture, surviving everything from bad dating advice to social media soundbites. It has crept into BDSM spaces, where loud posturing or overconfidence can be mistaken for confidence. Many mistake exaggerated posturing, cockiness, and emotional detachment for strength, especially when dominance is involved. That confusion creates a warped picture of what ethical BDSM actually requires. It is important to reassess the alpha myth and show why it simply does not belong in any serious or respectful D/S dynamic.

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Fetish Friday: Sensory Deprivation - A woman in red, wearing a black blindfold with red rose pedals scattered about.

Fetish Friday: Sensory Deprivation

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The world fades into darkness, and every sound becomes amplified. A soft breath, a light touch, a whisper feels sharper, more intense. Sensory deprivation involves removing or limiting sight, sound, or both through tools like blindfolds, earmuffs, or blackout hoods. Without these senses, anticipation, focus, and heightened awareness become more pronounced. Sensory deprivation creates a powerful shift in perception, an emotional and psychological experience that can be both thrilling and deeply immersive.

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