May 2025

Dominance - A dominant leading their submissive.

Dominance, Not Dependence

Too many cling to the tired idea that dominance is about barking orders and expecting immediate compliance, as though authority in D/S means nothing more than bossing around a submissive’s every move. That version is not only dull, it misses the entire point. Dominance does not breed dependence. It does not stunt confidence. It does not thrive on someone shrinking. It builds, it sharpens, and it strengthens. The role of a dominant is not to suppress someone into stillness. It is to elevate them into something bolder, sharper, and more capable than they were before.

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Objectification: A table

Fetish Friday: Objectification

Welcome to Fetish Friday and while not every topic chatted about here might be the object of your desires, this week it is at least, well an object as we explore objectification. Objectification is a unique aspect of BDSM that involves treating a person as an object or instrument for sexual gratification. While objectification has a long history within human sexuality, its exploration within the context of BDSM has given rise to a diverse range of kinks and practices. Throughout this exploration, the historical roots of objectification in fetishism will be uncovered, alongside an examination of various prevalent kinks and their appeal to individuals within the BDSM community.

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